• How her disability affects the way her body works
  • Where it is easier to have sex (her wheelchair, the bed, the floor)
  • What position hurts or could be more comfortable
  • What feels good and what doesn’t
  • How you can give each other pleasure
  • If she is often tired, when she feels she has the most energy to have sex
  • If you are also her caregiver, you can discuss the difference between the time you spend together for care and as sexual partners