- How her disability affects the way her body works
- Where it is easier to have sex (her wheelchair, the bed, the floor)
- What position hurts or could be more comfortable
- What feels good and what doesn’t
- How you can give each other pleasure
- If she is often tired, when she feels she has the most energy to have sex
- If you are also her caregiver, you can discuss the difference between the time you spend together for care and as sexual partners