Sexuality and Disability

My Story

Gliding Through Life

Though some disabled people strive for able-bodiedness through the search for a cure...many of us embrace our queer bodies and feel better in our skin by doing so. This is true for me; as I decided at the age of fifteen to begin to use a wheelchair despite my mother's decry that I "would never live a normal life" if I did not walk.I stopped talking because I went through a cycle of several fractures stemming from having brittle bones and a femur and double tibia rodding surgery that kept me bed-ridden for about six months. It exhausted my mental health and I decided walking was not worth the psychological cost...

I Have To Keep Trying

'I continued my job at the clinic doing in-home therapy with children. During a staff meeting, a family new to the clinic was discussed. They had waited 6 months to get a spot in with our therapists and psychiatrist. They had a little girl, about 3 years old, whom they had adopted from Ukraine. They were desperate for help, and actively seeking a new family for her. I shared an office with her therapist and she told me of the extreme withdrawal, refusal to speak and overwhelming sadness in the little girl. I approached my husband right away about the possibilities. He needed to think. A lot. For a long time. Which was smart, but I am not all that patient a person.

Questions

Question1 I don't look like everyone else, and my body works differently. Am I normal?
Despite what you may have been told or shown, difference is completely natural - bodies come in varying shapes and sizes, and no two people look, feel, smell, taste or sound exactly alike. Read more on I don't look like everyone else, and my body works differently. Am I normal

Question2 How important is sex in a relationship?
Says counsellor Deepak Kashyap, 'Sex is very important in a romantic relationship. Because even though every label is open-ended, every label has some meaning to it, Read more on How important is sex in a relationship?

Question3 How will I go through labour with my disability?
It is natural to feel anxious about giving birth - irrespective of whether or not you are disabled. Read more on How will I go through labour with my disability?